On Thursday, attention focused on Michelle Knight, and rightfully so.
The woman who was held longest by Castro and treated the most brutally
was also the only one to confront Castro directly in court. Her defiant
statement, read between tears, provided a visceral glimpse into to how
she, DeJesus, and Amanda Berry had persevered – and at last overcome.
But
DeJesus' statement, read by cousin Sylvia Colon, was a picture of grace
in an economy of words. It thanked the judge, the prosecutors, the
police, "the great City of Cleveland, and too many others to name.You
are now a part of our family."
It shared the family grief with
the Castros, whom the DeJesuses absolved and, with extraordinary
largeness of heart, reached out to them in language bearing the honesty
and tenderness of struggle endured: "Continue to love and support one
another – we promise you that with this recipe you will be triumphant."
And
it finished with an admonition that, for the family, all that matters
now is what lies ahead: "Today is the last day we want to think or talk
about this. These events will not own a place in our thoughts or our
hearts. We will continue to live and love."
It continued: "We stand before you and promise you that our beloved family member thrives. She laughs, swims,Home energy monitor
dances, and more importantly she loves and is loved. We are comforted
in knowing that she will continue to flourish. She will finish school,
go to college, fall in love, and if she chooses, will get married and
have children. She is where we will continue to put in our energy. She
lives not a victim, but as a survivor. Her insurmountable will to
prevail is the only story worth discussing."
Last week, Ms. Berry
showed the world what some measure of recovery from such moral
depravity looks like. She appeared onstage at the RoverFest music
festival in Cleveland and smiled and swayed as she listened to Nelly.
Now, the DeJesuses have shown the world, in a measure, what the beginnings of recovery feel like.
This
was apparent, too, when DeJesus' mother, Nancy Ruiz, told the local ABC
station what she felt when she heard that Berry had felt confident
enough to appear onstage at a music festival. "She had to have been
excited, and I'm so glad about her. There is no words to describe
because for her to be out and about – I mean, it's awesome. It's their
time, and they need this."
Few have been let inside the private
worlds of the three women since their release from Castro's house on
Seymour Avenue. And that is as it should be. DeJesus should enjoy every
moment of her sunbathing. But the few glances the outside world has been
allowed speak to the enormous love that has surrounded the women and
its effect.
For Berry and DeJesus, perhaps, this is not
surprising. Their families had mounted public campaigns to find them,
had put up leaflets, had held vigils, had never given up. But even Ms.
Knight, who said in court that she felt abandoned, and who said that
Castro openly tormented her, saying her family didn't love her, has
responded to a decade of physical and emotional torture with uncommon
kindness.
The Cleveland Police Department posted on its Facebook
page a handwritten "thank you" note Knight penned to the officers. "I am
overwhelmed by the amount of thoughts, love & prayers expressed by
complete strangers," she wrote.
Then on Friday, Knight visited
the neighborhood where she was once held captive and thanked the
neighbors for their support. When one woman asked her what she would
like to see happen to the house where she was kept prisoner, she
answered that she hoped a garden would be put in its place, according to
an NBC News report.
And in her statement in court Thursday,
Knight spoke of the relationship she found with DeJesus in captivity. "I
never let her fall, and she never let me fall," she said.
"This
is a woman with incredible resilience and warmth and she took that
moment to show her capacity for love," Frank Ochberg, clinical professor
of psychiatry at Michigan State University, and a psychiatric expert
for the prosecutor, said of Knight, according to a Yahoo report.
That
is the story Knight wants to tell going forward. "Writing this
statement gives me the strength to be a stronger woman and know that
there are more good people than evil," she said Thursday. "I know
there's a lot of people going through hard times but they need someone
to reach out a hand for them to hold and let them know they are being
heard."
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